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The Revd Paul Taylor and his wife, Jo live in Southport, Merseyside. The couple are long-standing applicants to Clergy Support Trust, receiving support during Paul's training, ministry and now retirement.

Paul retired early due to mental health challenges, and later received a diagnosis of bipolar, a disorder which can cause cause extreme switches between high and low moods.

As well as supporting them with the common challenges that they share with many clergy families - including covering those unexpected car repair bills, and enabling them to take a cherished family holiday - we were privileged to help fund his visit to The Sheldon Retreat Centre.

A Christian community offering retreats to clergy and/or their spouses/partners, especially at times of stress, crisis, burnout or breakdown, we've provided Sheldon with over £200,000 in funding over the past four years, to enable over 400 week-long residential visits and one-to-one support sessions.

"If it hadn't been for the Trust, with the various grants that we've had from them, I'm not sure how we would have coped over the vast number of years. We're so grateful."

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Paul is dressed in a grey hoodie, while Jo is wearing a white jumper. They are stood in their local park, looking off into the distance.

How did you first hear about Clergy Support Trust?

"We've been helped by Clergy Support Trust since they were called Sons of the Clergy."

"During my training, we received Holiday grants from them, and in my first incumbency, we got a grant towards some much-needed winter clothing for the children."

"Most of the support we've received has been since I retired early at 45, due to ill health. Suddenly, finances were incredibly tight. I mean, they were tight before, but they got incredibly tight."

"We had a huge bill for repairing the car, and received an Emergency grant of £500 towards that. We've had a couple of big-ish bills on the car over the past few years, and having the Trust take that stress off our shoulders made a huge difference".

Paul's mental health journey

"When I retired, and was struggling with my bipolar, I was recommended Sheldon."

"I knew that I'd really benefit from it, but it was a lot of money, and unfortunately, the diocese couldn't pay for it. It can feel like you're writing a begging letter when you're approaching a diocese for any form of financial support. It was such a shame."

"It was only after a couple of years that I'd been retired that a psychiatrist and mental health team actually identified that what I was experiencing was bipolar. I thought 'Oh my goodness. That explains the past thirty odd years!'"

"Clergy Support Trust helped to fund my visit to Sheldon, and I really benefitted from it. The retreat was a great help in my coming-to-recovery phase, which was slow. It was really, really helpful. I just couldn't have done it without that grant."

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Paul is dressed in a grey hoodie, while Jo is wearing a white jumper. They are both sat on their sofa in the living room.

What would you say to anyone thinking of applying to us?

"I would encourage people to just pick up the phone and have a conversation; the Trust are on your side."

"Having a human being on the other end of the phone, not just an automated service, makes all the difference. Even if it's a case of 'I'm sorry, you don't fall under any of our criteria', they can often signpost you to support elsewhere."

"You might think that what you're asking for is too much, but that doesn't matter. If that's what's going to make the difference, having that thing financially covered, and it then allows you to look after yourself and focus on other problems, reach out to them. That's certainly been our experience."

"You ask yourself 'Why am I not coping? Why haven't we got the money to get by?', but Clergy Support Trust understands."

We are concerned that more than 1 in 5 serving clergy rely on our help.

That’s why, as well as providing grants and services for those in need, we're working with the national Churches and others to develop longer-term solutions, so that every clergy household can thrive. This includes our advocacy work, which recently led to the uplift of the clergy stipend.

In 2024, we supported almost 2,800 households, with more than 7,300 grants. The demand for our services has quadrupled in the past five years, and continues to grow. We're only able to walk alongside clergy and their families with your help.

If you can make a donation through the link below, to help us continue to serve the people who spend their lives serving others, it would be greatly appreciated.

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NOTES FOR EDITORS
Photo credits: Clergy Support Trust.
Clergy Support Trust is the largest and oldest charity focussed on the wellbeing of clergy and their families. The Trust, originally founded in 1655, provides confidential help for Anglican clergy and their families across the UK, Ireland, Isle of Man, and Diocese in Europe. The Trust are confidential, independent, inclusive, and impartial, and we support clergy from training through to retirement.
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