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As many of our applicants know, ministry can pose its own unique challenges. It can be a solitary, often lonely role, and being constantly on-call to support the wellbeing of others can mean that clergy often don't - or rather can't - make the time to focus on their own wellbeing.

The Revd Albert Danquah is a curate in Edgware, London. After facing a difficult period of personal challenges, we were privileged to provide Albert with a Wellbeing grant - which can be used towards holidays, retreats and respite breaks - to return home to Ghana and enjoy the company of family and friends.

"I've been here for almost three years without my immediate family, which I know is a consequence of my life. It becomes so lonely. You come straight from the stress of work and you're alone. Just with you and an empty space. What do you do?"

"I was going through a difficult transition. I went back home to see Mum and Dad and my siblings, two of my siblings, because I needed that support. I will forever be grateful to the Trust for the help that was extended to me. It made things a little easier."

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Wearing a waistcoat, black shirt and white clerical collar, Albert is standing in front of a cherry blossom tree.

How did you first hear about Clergy Support Trust?

"I went for an informal chat with a senior colleague, just to talk about life issues because I was battling a few things. At the end of the conversation, he said 'If you need money at any point in an emergency, you could always Google Clergy Support Trust'. That was my first step."

"I was a bit anxious at first. Clergy give and give and give, until we are spent. Who cares for us? Who has our back? Who looks after us when we are down and under? It's difficult, and it can be a lonely path. I'm no exception."

"When it comes to looking for help, you can't deny the realities of life. Things happen. Emergencies come your way. It was a bit intimidating, but the people I got in contact with at the Trust made it easy for me."

"Finance is good, but wellbeing is key."

"If I can feel that I'm understood and I'm supported, and I know that I can run to someone who will not be judgmental in any way, but give me a listening ear, I think that might go a long way to help. For me, that would be the most important thing, really. It's one of the key things which is missing from life and ministry."

"I think the national Churches could offer some sort of safe haven for clergy, where they can come just talk, maybe like talking therapies..."

If, like Albert, you think that a listening ear would help support you in your life and ministry, discover our Counselling and Coaching Services. Counselling is there for a range of personal and pastoral issues, including anxiety, depression and bereavement. Coaching provides a safe space for you to think, explore and process what you need to without distraction.

What would you say to anyone thinking of applying?

"I'd tell them to just give it a try. It's much easier than you think it is. So why not?"

"The first time I applied, I went on the website, looked through the options, then called and said 'Hey, I need help.' They told me that they could probably help me with far more than I'd asked for, if I filled out a form and gave them a bit more information."

"The Grants and Services Officer was so gracious - so, so, so gracious! She's journeyed with me over the past couple of years in a very remarkable way, and I really do appreciate that."

"I would say that you never know what might be waiting for you. I think that it's a good service, so go for it."

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Albert is wearing a black shirt, jacket and a white clerical collar. He is sat on a metal park bench.

We are concerned that more than 1 in 5 serving clergy rely on our help.

That’s why, as well as providing grants and services for those in need, we're working with the national Churches and others to develop longer-term solutions, so that every clergy household can thrive.

In 2024, we supported almost 2,800 households, with more than 7,300 grants. The demand for our services has quadrupled in the past five years, and continues to grow. We're only able to walk alongside clergy and their families with your help.

If you can make a donation through the link below, to help us continue to serve the people who spend their lives serving others, it would be greatly appreciated.

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NOTES FOR EDITORS
Photo credits: Clergy Support Trust x Sarah Gawler Photography.
Clergy Support Trust is the largest and oldest charity focussed on the wellbeing of clergy and their families. The Trust, originally founded in 1655, provides confidential help for Anglican clergy and their families across the UK, Ireland, Isle of Man, and Diocese in Europe. The Trust are confidential, independent, inclusive, and impartial, and we support clergy from training through to retirement.
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